My preference is to have my coaching clients commit to at least 6 sessions. Each session may last longer than 1 hour depending on the needs of my clients. The sessions include a significant amount of work outside our discussions from both myself and my clients. Each person will receive their own copy of my workbook.

1. The first component includes:

Talking with each of you individually and creating a vision statement for each of you. This will help me to assess where you are in your personal thoughts and goals for the future before we start to outline a joint vision.

Homework: Complete each of the exercises in the Re-connecting section in the workbook

2. The second component includes:

a. A short individual discussion to review your vision statement and your comfort level with sharing with your partner

b. Discussion about core values and where/how they originated

Homework: Compete the starter questions & Risk tolerance in the Sharing more information section of the workbook

3. The third component includes:

Discussion about how you have decided to share information about the business etc. with each other

Homework: Complete the blueprint (individually and a joint one and the GOAL model for one specific goal. Goal can be for either of you)  in the Shared vision section of the workbook

4. The fourth component includes:

Discussion about your joint goals and your plans to accomplish your goals.

Homework: Complete the 5:1 ratio and love notes in the Deeply appreciating section of the workbook

5. The fifth component includes:

Discussion about how it felt to be truly appreciated, what worked, what didn’t. What made a difference and how did it feel?

Homework: Identify your inner language, and come up with a de-triggering word or phrase

6. The sixth component includes:

Discussion about understanding the way your partner shares information and modeling their mode of communication. Practice de-escalation techniques and ways to express frustration in a more effective and less hurtful manner. Ways to recognize when you are being hurtful and how to apologize/overcome that.

Homework: Complete the other exercises in the workbook. Practice de-escalation and de-triggering words. Join my monthly call. During  date night, use a book like, “My wish for you is _______” to generate discussion topics.

The goal is that by the end of the 6 sessions – you will

1. Have a better idea of more effective ways to communicate with one another

2. Have a clear and direct vision for yourselves as individuals and as a couple looking forward to your future

3. Better understand each others histories which can lead to greater compassion toward perceived flaws and a desire to improve upon said flaws!

4. Have a management tool you can reflect upon when working toward certain future goals.

5. Have a workbook filled with thoughts and ideas that you can re-read whenever you need a refresher.

6. Open the lines of communication regarding a myriad of topics surrounding both personal and business issues.

7. Learn ways to share your thoughts / feelings with your partner in the most compassionate way possible.